THINK

We all have thoughts and goals we wish to achieve, but we often give up on them. Have you ever wondered why that is? The reasons often include a lack of resources, limited thinking, social pressure, lack of motivation, and fear of failure.

A lack of resources can prevent many of us from thinking creatively and imagining possibilities. This is often due to a scarcity of job opportunities or feelings of inadequacy. In fact, feeling worthless can be a bigger stressor for the younger generation than heartbreak. It can destroy one’s ability to engage or even put forth effort in pursuits, leading to a belief that failure is inevitable. While incompetence can be overcome, it often requires significant willpower, encouragement, support, and a reduction of criticism over minor issues.

People with limited thinking often do not progress and remain in their comfort zones. This may stem from a lack of exposure to creativity or certain mental barriers that hinder their ability to think broadly. Remaining trapped in this mindset can prevent you from understanding why others pursue certain paths. To broaden your perspective, it’s essential to engage in activities that challenge your understanding. Doing so helps you to think from others' points of view, ultimately leading to greater success beyond your current perspective.

Social pressure can be one of the harshest forms of criticism a person may face. When you try to do something different, it can feel as though you are distorting the norm, and people often revert to their comfort zones if faced with this change. This phenomenon is fueled by limited thinking and societal expectations that weigh heavily on the younger generation. Previous generations, such as Boomers and Millennials, grew up in different times and may not fully understand the pressures we face today. They often carry their own historical burdens and might put pressure on us without recognizing the difference in our experiences.

Our current society, inundated with social media and constant communication, has led to a collective mental strain. To combat this, it’s important to not take such pressures seriously, manage your emotions, and reduce interactions with overly critical individuals. If we allow ourselves to be influenced by those around us, we may feel paralyzed and unable to move forward, regardless of our financial circumstances.

Lack of motivation can be another significant hurdle. Procrastination often stems from the mental stress associated with striving for success, leading to a loss of direction. This is a common challenge that requires immense willpower to overcome. At times, it may feel as if the weight of the world is on your shoulders, but you must push through. Surrounding yourself with supportive individuals can help rekindle your motivation. Being around people who encourage you and do not pity your situation can boost your determination.

Finally, fear of failure is a universal experience. It acts as a poison, preventing you from pursuing opportunities that could lead to your success. Worries about others’ opinions or responses can derail your efforts before you even begin. The concern over wasting time and resources, alongside the disapproval of others, exists primarily in our minds. Overcoming this fear requires research and a commitment to making the most of the time and effort you invest. By doing so, you will likely find the success you desire.